The Amazing Race: Text Me So I Can Hear You

Last week’s episode of The Amazing Race was the most uncomfortable ever and strangely last night’s episode was the most comfortable ever.  Last week brother and sister couple, Justin and Jennifer, fought, shouted, yelled, screamed, bickered, and argued during the entire episode.  They even argued when they were simply waiting for a train and not in the throes of a challenge.  It got to the point that it was not only visibly disturbing for the other contestants to watch, but it was even disturbing for us as viewers to watch.  Last night’s episode was quite the opposite.  While mention was made that everyone hoped Justin and Jennifer wouldn’t be at each other’s throats, most of the episode was dedicated to cordiality between team mates and cooperation amongst teams.  All of this set in the rice fields of Indonesia and a 9th-century Buddhist temple at Borobudur.

The contrasting episodes of painful bickering and peaceful living made me wonder whether life would be better lived in a world without smartphones and the Internet – a techno-less society to slow us down and take away our need for instant gratification that usually leads to instant frustration.  Justin and Jennifer are prime examples of folks who have been pushed to extreme emotions without the comforts of what they are used to – looking up things on Google, having a GPS to take them to their next destination, and having the luxury of air conditioning wherever they are.

Is there any way all this fancy technology can help them get along or do they need to slow down and plant rice for awhile?

Every word Justin spoke, Jennifer responded to.  And, vice versa.  But if you actually listened, you would notice that they were both talking so loud they couldn’t hear each other.  They weren’t communicating at all.  They weren’t listening, responding, listening, reacting.  And here is where technology can save them.  If they could just send a text to each other, even while standing next to each other, they would be forced to process their thoughts, think of the right words to articulate them, breath while they typed them into a texting device, and wait for the reply.  This texting back and forth would allow them to actually have a conversation without speaking a word.  It is the conversation that human relationships are built upon.  A little technology can allow couples to communicate without having to live on a rice farm on the other side of the world.

So next time someone is talking so loud that you can’t hear them, send a text.

The Amazing Race: Confucius Meets Twitter

The Amazing Race came back with yet another exciting season premier this weekend.  From the start we saw a lack of preparation by ‘the showgirls’ that almost landed them a trophy for the shortest lived contestants on The Amazing Race.  It all started when Kaylani didn’t secure her passport, dropping it at a gas station less than an hour after the race began.  Luckily, a passerby Tweeted that he had found a passport belonging to an Amazing Race contestant and got convinced by his followers to hand deliver it to LAX.  Strangely, this was a harbinger of the upcoming challenge in which contestants played a game of ‘telephone’ at the Taipei Confucius Temple where they had to listen to a recorded saying by Confucius and then repeat it precisely for their next clue.

Confucius said, “In all things success depends on previous preparation.  And without such previous preparation, there is sure to be failure.”

Even though Confucius spoke nearly 2,500 years ago, his words are as applicable in this digital century as they were when he first spoke them.

In this week’s episode, we saw firsthand what can happen if a team fails to prepare.  But for the kindness of strangers connected to Twitter, Kaylani and Lisa would have been sure to fail.  And therein lies the amazing facets we find in the season premier of The Amazing Race.  Every aspect of our life is interconnected through and into the digital world.  Every step we take online has some type of impact on our footprints in the real world.  With each step we must ask ourselves, “Are we preparing for future success when acting in the present moment?”

When you post a photo on Facebook, can it affect how a future employer might perceive you to be resulting in a lost job opportunity?  When you get a security update, do you hit Remind Me Later, leaving all your personal bank information at the mercy of a hacker?  When you sign into Facebook, Twitter, or Gmail, do you use the same password, setting yourself up for a major phishing attack?  When you register for a new site, do you skip the privacy set-up process, letting others you would never share with see all your personal thoughts.  When you store your private photos, do you put them in a folder clearly marked private, making them highly visible and desirable for others to open?

Every act we take online impacts our safety, security, and privacy.   Take a moment to consider how your actions today will impact your future success.  This was true when Confucius lived in a world without an Internet just as much as it is true today in a world than can’t survive without an Internet.

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